Start Feeling but, for Real Now...
- zoleikhamian
- Jun 13
- 3 min read

“It is now or never” may sound a bit drastic as the opening headline for this post, but what if this headline isn’t solely about urgency? What if instead, is about being given a real opportunity, supported by higher forces (energies) to tap fully into something very unpopular?
Time for what, you may be asking?...
To START FEELING, everything.
It is now being shown to us, clearly & undeniably, that this programmed “inability” to truly feel is the root cause of our disconnection from within.
We have stuffed so many feelings & emotions inside of us that every part of our own Self is bursting at the seams; it is all coming up now because it has been a long time coming.
It is time to wake up to the harsh truth or rather, a truth that we have always known, but needed to be nudged to remember.
The truth that we were never taught how to feel properly; to sit with each feeling like a trusted friend, to acknowledge and accept it, to understand it and integrate it. I believe this was a premeditated tactic to keeps us disconnected from within. Because when we are disconnected, we are easy to control.
As human beings, beyond our ability to rationalise, what differentiates us from other beings is our ability to FEEL! We are sentient beings, but we were never taught how to embrace that fully.
Feelings cloud judgement? I believe Feelings debunk judgement.
What we were taught; and do very well, is how to bottle up feelings, how to eat our feelings, how to let our feelings become immortal cows ruminating in our brain without a shepherd, how to dismiss our feelings, how to react, how to control them, how to fight them. The list is long.
This blog post is an invitation to acknowledge that as sentient beings, the Earth offers us a vast spectrum of feelings; opposing, familiar or unexpected. Feeling is a very important part of our human experience that awakens us to our human emotions, adding to the wisdom of our soul. The feelings and emotions that we are subjected to are our true greatest teachers, more than the experiences that cause the feelings.
Even when faced with resistance; can we embrace the whole range of feelings, even when we don’t ask for them?
We definitely didn’t just come here to experience feelings that remember us who we are at our essence: love, joy, prosperity, abundance, compassion, kindness, confidence…
No.
I believe we came here to experience all that we are NOT, while deeply knowing & communing with who we are.
Let’s start training ourselves to say: “Ok, if I am able to fully embrace Love, then I can also embrace its other side called Grief. If I can fully embrace happiness and joy, then in agreement with life to also embrace the feeling of sadness.” Because one comes with the other, they are two sides of the same coin.
We will remember more the feeling from an experience, than the experience itself; because feelings touch all of us: Mind, Body, Emotion and Soul. The experience itself is primarily stored and processed by the brain (one part of us).
Feelings awaken the deeper memory of what it meant to be there, in the experience.
By agreeing to FEEL EVERYTHING, you begin to FREE YOURSELF from unnecessary heavy baggage that disconnects us from our true essence. You start to connect with yourself deeper.
To feel is to explore the depths of what it means to be human.
Did you know that if you understand how we feel, a feeling will take approximately 15-20 minutes to pass?
Do you know the difference between feelings and emotions?
Feeling is the compass to navigating our waters and in my practice “Intention Within” I will guide you in understanding this process and learning how to feel without drowning.
Love always, Zoly
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